from The Politics of Self-Determination
Copyright 2000: Timothy Leary
All right reserved
The diagnosis of interpersonal behavior is tremendously
facilitated by the space-time location system. Here again we ignore
tempting variables and focus simply on the basic questions: What space
do they share? What time do they share? We thus define a powerful
variable we might call intimacy, commitment, involvement, attitude, i.e.,
that angle of approach. We might hazard a definition of love as the
amount of space-time shared.
We might hazard a
definition of love
The first step in diagnosing behavior is to determine where
the subject spends his time, how long, how frequently, and with whom.
Location in space-time is a relatively straightforward task and is basic
to any psychological evaluation.
as the amount of space-time shared.
Power of Sharing Space-Time
The basic interpersonal issue is how much space-time
will you share with another? Your office? Home? Bedroom?
Body? What kind of time will you share? Day or night?
By appointment only? The fact that the husband and wife spend thirty
years together day and night is considered much more important than the
emotional game they playófighting, submitting, cooing, dominating.
The basic interpersonal
If you want to change someoneís behavioróshare space-time
with hir. Your space-time is the most valuable and potent instrument
you have. If you understand this simple principle, you have attained
a liberating direction of your life.
how much space-time
will you share with another?
Following this hypothesis we should expect that mother-child
relationshipsónine months of internal body sharingóand marital relationshipsóextended
duration of internal body sharingóare the most potent change situations.
College lectures and doctor-patient interviews are the least potent.
This suggests that if you canít "mother" or marry them, the best way to
influence behavior is to engage in reciprocal home visits or meet regularly
in extra-work locationsóbars, restaurants, beaches. The most successful
programs for dealing with social "problems," like Alcoholics Anonymous,
scrupulously avoid the power-loaded environment of the scheduled office
The first functional issue in behavior change is presence.
How can we change him if he wonít share space-time with us?
Will the patient
In the prison, space-time factors become dramatically obvious.
Consider a young "delinquent" sentenced to prison at age 19. Who
is going to shape hir behavior? Other prisoners with whom s/he shares
cell, meal, table, shop, bench, yard timeóand often body space. Next
to other convicts, s/he will share most time with guards. The middle-class
professional calls the convict into the prison clinic for thirty to forty
minutes a week. According to the space-time formula, such well-oriented
interventions are pitifully limited.
continue to come?
Copyright 2000: Timothy Leary/Futique Trust